Archive for February, 2010

Dealing With the Way Things Are – Changing Your BUT to an AND

Posted in Communication, Leadership, Training & Workshops, Uncategorized on February 18th, 2010 by HeidiFrye – 1 Comment
Have you ever been SO engrossed in your own fury, your own irritation regarding a situation, YOUR OWN REACTION, that your perception got distorted? Your perception changes the way you are able to deal with the way things really are. Maybe one of these situations has sparked a reaction in you: the doors to the plane close just as you are running toward the gate; it rains on your trip to Sedona…you know, the sure-bet vacation you planned in a place where it NEVER rains; or your leftover meal from your favorite restaurant – the one you were looking forward to all day to have for tonight’s dinner, was eaten by somebody else.
Surely you’ve heard the phrase “is your glass half empty or half full?” Well, when you lose “your power”, you lose your capability, your perspective, because you become a slave to your own reaction – the glass will definitely be half empty.

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